bloke wrote: ↑Wed Feb 12, 2025 1:23 pm
. . . Unlike what we were able to do, they've told all of their children that they won't be able to pay any percentage of any of their college tuition, if any/all of them decide to go to college. . .
. . . She's over-the-top smart (excels and is a year-or-two ahead in all subjects).
She doesn't need to spend her life messing around with a bunch of weirdos, making no money, and being treated as if someone pushing a mop. . .
Our oldest daughter graduated with a 4+ gpa & numerous AP credits from a school that was ranked the #1 best college prep public high school in California (emphasis in STEM, but very strong music program, too).
Recognizing the table-stakes/ante perception by many (people, employers) of a college degree but skeptical of the cost, she enlisted as a Marine musician and easily earned her undergraduate degree with minimal out-of-pocket expense (military's "tuition assistance" program) during her single enlistment, while banking most of her pay and gaining fabulous life/adulting experience.
4 years after high school she had her business/finance degree, a job in tech, a house, a husband, and a very healthy 401K. Now in her 6th year post-high-school, she's completing her MBA, and is exploring business opportunities.
i.e. assuming one wants/needs a college education & degree as a launchpad instead of an anchor, there are ways to earn it without incurring crippling debt.